If you have never been to a faerie gathering before you may be wondering just what exactly happens. Each gathering is unique and a creation of the individuals that are there and so the particular activities and experiences can vary from one gathering to the next.
That said there are things that are quite likely to happen and a core ethos that exists in everything Faerie related:
Queer Space – a gathering is a place where people of differing ages, races, body sizes and shapes, sexualities and asexualities, genders and non-genders, magical, spiritual and religious beliefs all come together. This fluidity and diversity can be liberating as it allows you to be the “true you” but can also seem strange and intimidating to some that have never been in this sort of space before. If you are new to faeries/queer/lgbt groups you might want to have a chat with one of the organisers first to really get a feel for if this is for you. Of course, if your heart is crying yes, yes, yes then listen to that!
Co-creation – radical faeries have a great phrase of “if you see something that needs doing, best way is to do it”! Although there are always a team of people helping bring the gathering to fruition beforehand, each event happens because of the people that come to it. Everyone chips in to help in whatever way they can through helping to prepare meals, washing dishes, setting tables, sweeping up, chopping wood, creating workshops, holding heart circles, taking part in entertaining others, participating and supporting activities etc. There is no obligation for you to do any particular thing, but participation and involvement are a gathering in many ways.
Food – we eat meals together which are vegetarian with vegan options and are prepared in the kitchens by anyone that wants to help out (if no one does, we all go hungry but it hasn’t happened yet!) You can be the head chef for a meal or help out by chopping the vegetables etc
Heart circles –The special environment of a gathering allows for multiple heart circles that are often free from some of the time constraints of heart circles that happen away for the event and so can lead to incredibly profound openness (you can read more about heart circles here…)
Workshops & activities – people bring an amazing mix that can include rituals, dancing, drumming, theatricality, music, art, sexuality, sensuality, card games, rumpuses, fancy dress and dresses, silence, solitude, serenity, chaos, noise, drama and more! Remember, if you bring it, it will (most likely) happen!
Conduct – a gathering aims to be an inclusive space and also a safe and supporting space. Occasionally those three don’t quite fit together and in those rare times, the organisers may highlight to individuals/groups how their behaviour could be causing some conflict and ultimately may ask someone to leave if that is felt it protects the overall gathering.
Support – a gathering is not a group counselling session. The wide mix of people and activities means you may decide to try new things or take risks/push boundaries. As a participant you should assume responsibility for your own personal, emotional, physical and sexual safety and should exercise due care and understand and accept this. That said, there are heart circles, understanding fairies, hugs and waiting organisers around to help you in many ways with support and love.
- 29 Jan to 5 Feb 2018 – Paddington Farm
Imbolc, Gathering for Connection.
For some of us the winter is a place of hibernation, chosen hermitage or unchosen isolation. As we move to and through Imbolc we start to move out of this place and into an awareness of the coming spring. We re-establish connections with humans and the stirring land, re-find our tribes and set our intentions for the coming year. We nurture ourselves and each other, eat, share, connect Find out more…
- 14 to 18 March 2018 – Malvern Hills, near Gloucester
Faerie magic gatheringA small, diverse, gathering to celebrate, explore and develop ourselves as magic workers. Find out more…
- March 27 to April 5, 2018 – Featherstone Castle
Ostara Faerie gathering
Spring has sprung…
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- May 7 to 14, 2018 – Paddington Farm
- October 16 to 25, 2018 – Featherstone Castle
Samhain Faerie gathering